Know thyself, then get over thyself.
"The chief means of happiness in this life is the ability to consider externally always, internally never." -Gurdjieff“...the highest aim and sense of human life is the striving to attain the welfare of one’s neighbor...this is possible exclusively only by the conscious renunciation of one’s own." -Gurdjieff
Don't be the Narcissistic Samaritan, too busy primping in the mirror to help.